Barry Sizemore

Most advice about financial boundaries focuses on scripts. “Just say no.” “Stick to your budget.” “Be firm.” But if it were that simple, you wouldn’t be here. The real issue isn’t that you don’t know how to say no. It’s that you are trying to preserve three things at once: Your financial...

There's nothing quite like the emotional whirlwind of driving your child to their college move-in day. It’s a milestone that symbolizes the beginning of their independence and a new chapter of shared growth for both parent and student. You’ve packed the car with dorm essentials, memories of their...

Stargazing has always captivated the human imagination, inspiring us to wonder about the mysteries of the universe and our place within it. For anyone who's felt the pull of the night sky—the mesmerizing glow of constellations, the dazzling beauty of planets, or the fleeting streak of a shooting...

Financial guilt undermines stability when feelings of obligation or shame repeatedly override your long-term financial priorities. It often sounds like this internally: “I should help.” “I have more than they do.” “It would be selfish to say no.” “I’ll figure it out later.” In the moment, giving...

Saying no about money often feels like personal rejection because financial support is closely tied to love, loyalty, and identity—not just dollars. When someone asks for money and you decline, it can feel like you’re saying: “You don’t matter.” “You’re on your own.” “I’m choosing myself over you...

Family expectations create financial pressure when unspoken roles, cultural norms, or long-standing habits make you feel responsible for supporting others—regardless of your own stability. This pressure doesn’t always sound dramatic. It often shows up quietly: You’re the one everyone assumes will...

Planning a summer getaway is an exciting opportunity to explore new destinations, create lifelong memories, and soak up the sunshine. Whether you're heading to a tropical beach, the mountains, or a bustling city, being prepared with the right items can make a world of difference in your travel...